30 8 / 2014
"Life is available only in the present moment."
29 8 / 2014
"When we tell the truth about who we are, what we need and want, and how we feel, it helps us feel connected to people and form deep bonds with them. Telling the truth is not always easy, especially when you feel that the disclosure will hurt someone you love. But withholding information to protect someone you love is not only unfair to them, it is counterproductive to the relationship.
I really just say what is not being said. It is what you are not saying that is getting in the way of everything. —Dillon
Many of the people I spoke to said that when their partners share information with them, they feel informed and in the loop. Knowing what’s going on makes them feel more secure about their relationship and more connected to their partner. Many say that they feel the most insecure, jealous, and anxious when they don’t know what is up. What often happens is that they use their imagination to fill in the blanks, fear and and irrationality come into play, and they make something into what it is not or imagine the worst-case scenario."
29 8 / 2014
"No cord or cable can draw so forcibly, or bind so fast, as love can do with a single thread."
28 8 / 2014
"Our notions about happiness entrap us. We forget that they are just ideas. Our idea of happiness can prevent us from actually being happy. We fail to see the opportunity for joy that is right in front of us when we are caught in a belief that happiness should take a particular form."